Boundaries
“We change our behavior when the pain of staying the same becomes greater than the pain of changing. Consequences give us the pain that motivates us to change.”
Do you have problems with people that don't have boundaries? Then this is a great book to read by Dr. Henry Cloud. I attended a television seminar on this once and found it useful. There is a general boundaries book as well as one on dating boundaries. Here's a question though, you may have good boundaries but what about others that don't? Then what do you do?